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Well, "compromise" means creating a win-win situation, where each party
gives up something to get something. However, people do not understand that it does not include giving up their happiness.
Personally, I believe that if you value your relationship, you would want to be happy and experience some sense of sanity and calm in it. It would not make any sense then, for you to separate your own happiness from the relationship, because, lets face it, you are in it to be happier and fulfilled.
Personally, I believe that if you value your relationship, you would want to be happy and experience some sense of sanity and calm in it. It would not make any sense then, for you to separate your own happiness from the relationship, because, lets face it, you are in it to be happier and fulfilled.
Which brings us back to the question at hand, would you compromise your happiness for the success of your relationship?
Please Share Your Thoughts ........................
I BELIVE THAT IF YOU HAVE TO COMPROMISE YOUR HAPPINESS FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP. THEN ITS NOT LOVE. ITS SOMETHING MUCH MORE DIFFERENT AND DARK. AND CAN KILL YOU IN THE PROCESS.
ReplyDeleteI'm gessin dah 'my hapiness'depends on d success of my relationship, its all hapiness on d long run!!
ReplyDeletesuccess is happiness and vice versa. you must have both .
ReplyDeletecompromise is not bad, but when it involves your happiness. be single
ReplyDeleteAs I am now not in a relationship nko
ReplyDeleteIf I wash the dishes he shud rinse them , that's compromise. When he does this without me telling him to that's sacrifice. And the joy og working together is happiness. And to me that being in a relationship. All or nothing
ReplyDeleteI dnt think you should
ReplyDeletehappiness should not be compromised, wat is better than it?, true happiness bolsters a successful relationship......Tayo Erogbogbo
ReplyDeleteTaj..... A compromised relationship is a trouble relationship! Never compromise ur relationship cos it defintely would lead to a major compromise where 1 of the party would ve compromised es or er own future! So I say I take happiness b4 any dead relationship, nw I'm at peace wit ma self! Wink
ReplyDeleteYou can't have one without the other, because we enterd the relationship to be happy in the first place.
ReplyDeleteHappiness and succezz should go hand in hand
ReplyDeleteNo because in the end its not going to be successful. Its going to be a HOT MESS.
ReplyDeleteWe are in relationships in the first place, ultimately, to Increase our happiness! So NO!
ReplyDeleteNah - the whole point of being in a relationship is happiness. So I definitely wouldn't compromise my happiness just for the sake of having a man in my life.
ReplyDeleteAfter doing it once..Ha no..
ReplyDeleteIt would make me bitter. Not a good idea
ReplyDeleteThe relationship is doomed to fail if one of the individuals involved is unhappy.
ReplyDeleteIf I did that, how would such a relationship be considered "successful"?
ReplyDeleteI would think that's an important part....
How can the relationship be a success, if your not Happy ?
ReplyDeleteThat would be a paradox.
ReplyDeleteWeigh the pros and cons then decide.. Only you can answer that because this question could mean thousand different things to different people.
ReplyDelete...im seriously suprised at these answers. compromise is one thing but...damn. i agree with those that said being unhappy in a relationship wont make it a successful one
ReplyDeletewonder whats surprising this one
DeleteI would, I have, and it is WORTH IT.
ReplyDeleteyes i will
ReplyDeleteWell i would, if ts necessary . havn a lasting relationship is important to me
ReplyDeletenice post.should get some people thinking
ReplyDeleteWe dnt av a girl friend, no relationship
ReplyDeleteVia All Round Gists
So you 'guys' have just one girlfriend ?
DeleteLmfao. People are twisted yo!
ReplyDeleteHow tf can you say that a 'lasting" relationship is more important than your happiness.
Babe, wr u dropped wn u wr born?????
No
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