Many People believe being over-caring and giving too much can make their relationship work , however, they seem to forget that not everyone thinks so.
You might think you are the best BF/GF in the world, and your partner thinks you are obsessed and too dependent, leaving you feeling unappreciated.
What you don't know is that giving too much and being too caring can make your partner appreciate you less, because you have unknowingly activated your ''mumu - button'', and so their respect for you diminishes.
I'm not saying its a bad thing, but every relationship should strive for balance, too much of everything isn't advisable.
So do you believe that caring too much in a relationship is wrong?
Please Share Your Thoughts .............................
mumu button looool
ReplyDeleteits wrong, same as stalking
ReplyDeleteNiceee
ReplyDeleteits wrong, nut what if you cant help it.
ReplyDeletei believe it can break up the relationship
ReplyDeletebwaahahaha..... i did mumu for one babe in secondary school o.. sadly she ran
ReplyDeletei think it is wrong.
ReplyDeleteThe babe will now be doin you anyhow, like youre her slave or somtn.
i'm just tired of all this.
i belive it all starts at the inception of the relationship.
mumu at the beginning, mumu forever.
eevn if theres sex involvd.
once a mumu always a mumu
overdoing things has never been right. so i agree, caring too much is wrong
ReplyDeletepeople are sad o .. see vex ontop caring
ReplyDeleteIt becomes pestlike when the care is too much na. Anythng in excess is bad
ReplyDeleteCaring too much??I really dnt knw wat to say bu I fnk too much of everyfin z nt nice
ReplyDeleteOfcourse u cn help it. Prolly u hv toomch money to waste.
ReplyDeleteNice
ReplyDeleteAlso check Hypehit
IS CONTENTMENT PROFIT OR LOSS?
ReplyDeleteIS TOO MUCH OF SOMETHING BAD?
ONLY INGRATITUDE WILL MAKE AN INDIVIDUAL SAY TOO MUCH CARE IS TOO MUCH
ONLY GREED WILL MAKE FEELINGS DIMINISH FROM GETTING ALL U COULD EVER WISH FOR IN A RELATIONSHIP.
IF U CANT PUT YOUR ALL INTO SOMETHING, WHY BOTHER STARTING IN THE FIRST PLACE, NOW WHO IS THE MUMU.
i get your point, the person is wrong. but did you ever notice tht prolly while you were doin all for her, she neva for once returned the favour?
DeleteIf tz not reciprocal, yup
ReplyDeleteTough one. I dn't really know if this is a problem ..buh I think it depends on the undastanding and the kind of love you both share . If you both truly undastand each other I don't think your GF wil try to take advantage of your 'over caring attitude ' but truth is .60% of all this modern day girls wil try to take advantage of it
ReplyDeleteits not wrong, but i think the two people in a relationship should practice give and take on both sides . not give al and take none
ReplyDeleteyou cant give anyone the perfect relationshipand expct the relationship to last, pessimism will never let anyone be at peace. they will just be ungrateful.
ReplyDeleteits not wrong, just that people are bastards
ReplyDeleteTaj Akinbobos!!!! I really did press d mumu button!!! Trust me I was treated like a mumu bcos I fell 2 inlov!!! Buh really wts d crime der in falln inlov and wantn 2 show how much u care! As 4 me neva again wud I show ma tru feelns!!! But yet again in ma past relationships, I neva showed ma feeln which was alwas a problem 4 d 2nd party!!! So really wt do we do?
ReplyDeleteYes bastards
ReplyDeleteI can tell dts d babe at d parry lekans house! Taj I was gona tell u! D way u used her has dp and d way u spoke abt er 2 very1 on au much u loved er wud land u in trouble! Tho I was impressed cos u were 1es a beast and 2 c a beat fall inlov was a gud tin!!! Guess u knw best nw bruv. Guess she dint worth ur love! Move on better and sweeter babes wit dignity wud com ur way. Ur a fine guy na
ReplyDeleteTaj,Lol Well I pressed d mumu button, and ve learnt ma lesson! Life goes on. On 2 d next 1
ReplyDelete@Taj I fink saying you would never show your true feelings is sooo dumb cuz you are hurting yourself not anyone else. The truth is many of us have played the mumu button and have bin taking for granted. You just have to learn that not every one is worth it, the person dat is worth it would appreciate it.
ReplyDeleteTaj: awwwwww, tnks tho!!! But on d long run I was trully hurt 4 d 1st time in ma entire life. I wud try and take ur advise
ReplyDeleteYou are welcome *hugs and kisses*
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