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Would You Compromise Your Happiness for the Success of Your relationship?

Some will cleanly say a big “No” to this question, while some may say a “Yes”. Well, as many would agree with me, there doesn’t exist a “how to” manual for relationships. If there existed something like that, I wouldn’t be writing this and you wouldn’t be reading this either.

Well, "compromise" means creating a win-win situation, where each party gives up something to get something. However, people do not understand that it does not include giving up their happiness.

Personally, I believe that if you value your relationship, you would want to be happy and experience some sense of sanity and calm in it. It would not make any sense then, for you to separate your own happiness from the relationship, because, lets face it,  you are in it to be happier and fulfilled.

  Which brings us back to the question at hand, would you compromise your happiness for the success of your relationship?

 Please Share Your Thoughts ........................

How Healthy is Your Relationship?

Many people claim or think that they are in a healthy relationship, this totally normal, trust me. It is not abnormal to look at your relationship as a fairy tale at it's early stages , but really, what happens when it is no longer what it used to be ?

Is Caring too Much a Problem?

''When in love, it's only natural that you give your all'' - KFA

Many People believe being over-caring and giving too much  can make their relationship work , however, they seem to forget that not everyone thinks so. 

You might think you are the best BF/GF in the world, and your partner thinks you are obsessed and too dependent, leaving  you feeling unappreciated.

What you don't know is that giving too much and being too caring can make your partner appreciate you less, because you have unknowingly activated your ''mumu - button'', and so their respect for you diminishes.

I'm not saying its a bad thing, but every relationship should strive for balance, too much of everything isn't advisable. 

So do you believe that caring too much in a relationship is wrong? 

Please Share Your Thoughts .............................

How Do You Know You're Being 'Friend-zoned' ?

This question was sent in by a reader today, who claims to have been friends with a girl for a while but sees no sign of their relationship progressing any further.

Friend-zone is the point where a girl decides that you are her friend, and no longer a dating option. You become this complete non-sexual entity in her eyes, like a brother, or a lamp.You basically have all the responsibilities of a boyfriend with none of the benefits included.
How then is it possible to realize you are being zoned before its too late ? 

Please Share Your Thoughts........................

Dating Older People: How Old is Too Old?

There is always something appealing and refreshing about dating people your age, but sometimes in the quest for adventure, maturity or something more, many people tend to want and settle for someone more established and refined. This sudden attraction may be borne out of curiosity or pure preference. 

‘’So what is 5 years or 10 years if it gives you happiness’’, using this excuse, people tend to avoid being judgmental and date older people. 

However, this nagging question still  springs up every once in a while, 

How Old is Too Old? 

When Is It Okay to Stop Being Jealous

Having a flirty GF/BF can really be hard because it might be hard to know when they are being serious. Feeling jealous is pretty natural in this situation, and a bit of jealousy can never hurt anyone, but when is it okay to draw the line, and put a lid on your emotions?